The other day, a friend shared a link on Facebook, to an article by Alissa at Creative with Kids. It was entitled You Know What Will Ruin My Kids? or Banishing the Should Mama I am such a “Should” Momma, at least in my head.  I look around my house and think, “If I was a good Momma, we wouldn’t have fire ants (more on that later,) our windowsills wouldn’t have dead mosquitos on them, there wouldn’t be dirty laundry, we wouldn’t be out of fresh carrots and the new seedlings would already be planted. When we are at a playdate, I think,”If I was a good Momma, my children would sit quietly for Storytime,…